All your life you are told the things you cannot do. all your life they will say you're not good enough or strong enough or talented enough, they'll say your the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or achieve this. they will tell you no, a thousand times no until all the no's become meaningless. all your life they will tell you no, quite firmly and very quickly. they will tell you no. and you will tell them yes.